Babies need outside help to calm down. When you are feeling stressed, try to find ways to calm down before you interact with your baby.
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Take a deep breath. This may mean letting your baby cry a minute longer so that you can take a deep breath before picking your baby up and trying to soothe them. Team up. Try to enlist the help of your spouse, friends, family members, or a babysitter to help hold or care for your baby during fussy times of the day. Take a walk. Fresh air and a change of scenery can work wonders for you and your baby. During particularly stressful times, try making a change in environment and see if it helps you and your baby calm down.
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From birth, each baby has a unique personality and preferences. Some babies might be soothed by noise and activity whereas others might prefer calm and quiet. The key is to learn your baby cues and respond to them accordingly. Even though all of the sounds and cries may sound the same at first, your baby is communicating with you in different ways, using sound and movement. Sometimes babies will fuss no matter what you do, as when teething, sick, or undergoing a big developmental change.
When this happens, keep up your efforts to communicate with and soothe your baby. Your patience, love, and care benefit your baby even if they continue to fuss. Watch out for peer pressure from well-meaning family and friends. What worked for their baby may not work for yours. By learning what it takes to calm and soothe your baby, you initiate trust, and your baby begins the process of learning how to self soothe. Without proper rest, a baby cannot be calm and alert and ready to engage with you. Babies sleep a lot often hours a day in the first few months , and their sleep signals will come more often than you might expect.
Often, babies who are overtired can act hyper-alert and move frenetically. Hunger will also be the cause of many early cues from your baby. The importance of having fun, playing with, holding, and sharing happiness with your baby cannot be overstated. Your body language, tone of voice, and loving touch are all important ways of communicating with your baby. When you see signs that your baby wants to play, try to relax and then enjoy exchanging smiles, funny faces, and happy coos with your baby.
Toys, books, and music can provide a helpful starting point for play, but often all it takes is a game of peek-a-boo or a silly voice to invite your baby to interact. We next see this when the child becomes a teenager. Show them the skills they need to survive outside of the family, such as the self-esteem they need to be an adult. The role of dad could be anyone. Men aren't bound to the fact they are pregnant or biological to a child.
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She is now on a journey to become a better person, and a better parent one itty-bit at a time and warmly invites you to join her in this journey! Great list Sumitha, especially with the added links. I look forward to a lot of things, many on the list, that we can do when the cold and snow thaw here. Traditions seem to be big with my daughter so we try to incorporate those and in as many holidays as we can. Family movie night is big here as is the pizza night idea also.
It also gives mom or whichever parent cooks a break to know what to make on a regular basis or just have a night off completely with take-out. One of my friends did the Shutterfly keepsake book for their first trip to Disney and it came out really nice. Traveling is always great if you can afford it but what I love about it besides the trip itself, and also with being outdoors, is no cell phone or iPads. The internet for me as well.
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I try to get my daughter to bake with me but sometimes her interest wanes. Now that she is learning fractions, baking is spot on—a double bonus! A garden is great, too. My daughter loathes broccoli but one year we had a fantastic mini crop of it and she loved the homegrown. Reading should always be emphasized.
Only recently have we stepped back a bit since she has a book to read from school and our schedule has been a bit off but I plan on getting back into it, even though she is almost nine now. I had plenty of her teachers tell me that they could tell she was read to and that was a great compliment for me. For us eating out and movies happen on a whim. I need to put in some effort to make it happen more consistently.
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And like you, I love reading to my daughter. These days, whenever possible I make her read for me as well — boosts her confidence and makes for a very interesting time together. Thanks for sharing your broccoli story — getting my daughter interested in her veggies is a huge incentive for me to try this. I was just talking to a friend before commenting here and we were making plans to take the kids to the park and I realized I forgot to add that simple one to the list.
Some of the best bonding times I have with my daughter these days are at the park — either as we drive ther, or as she plays or when we go for a nice long walk the park is adjacent to a creek after she is done playing for a bit. I like your suggestion to unplug the best of all though! I wonder how on earth we got so addicted to the screens in our lives from tv to laptop to smartphones — they eat away at so much of the quality time we could spend with our families!
Hi Sumitha and Bernadette, I totally enjoyed reading your comments. Also the article put up by Sumitha is fantastic and timely. Kula daivam etc. We have been following such group activities in our household. To give examples, it would be a long essay. But broadly, Sumitha has covered all activities in the post. It is rightly a handbook. Keep it up Sumitha!!! Great work. Thanks again for your kind and encouraging words, Geeta.
Sumitha, I too look forward to your posts.
Your post reaches me at 6 pm on Mondays. My family has started teasing me, that on Mondays I wait for your post.